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Childhood Alzheimer’s (NPC), childhood trauma, fear and anxiety - threats to child development.
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Childhood Alzheimer’s (NPC), childhood trauma, fear and anxiety - threats to child development.

The assumption that children do not experience mental health changes may be inaccurate and misleading, potentially exacerbating challenges for the child, their family, and the broader society. This is because the future of any society is contingent upon the well-being of its children. A society that neglects the development of sound children may miss out on the sustenance of its own development, as replacements for these individuals may emerge from the population.

One crucial fact we must acknowledge is that children can indeed face mental health challenges. However, it is essential for parents, guardians, caregivers, educators, and other gatekeepers in child development, care, and custody to be vigilant and responsible in recognizing these challenges. For instance, a child may have endured experiences such as abuse, treatment, or threats, which can lead to fear, shock, anxiety, stress, worry, or even panic. These traumatic experiences can have a lasting impact on a child’s mental well-being, and they may not feel comfortable speaking up about them. Similarly, witnessing violent clashes between parents or experiencing frequent caning by teachers and caregivers can also be traumatic for children.

The primary objective of this writeup is to raise awareness about the mental health challenges that children face and the detrimental consequences they can have. Traumatic experiences encountered by children can lead to various mental health conditions, including dementia and ADHD. These challenges can result in neurocognitive decline, affecting children’s cognitive, emotional, and psychomotor development. Anxiety and fear in children can manifest in various ways, such as difficulty sleeping, irritability, and avoidance of daily activities. These fears and anxieties can trigger physical symptoms like headaches, stomach aches, fatigue, and difficulty concentrating. They can also lead to problems with eating and cause negative thought patterns. These mental health issues can interfere with a child’s development, family dynamics, and school relationships and activities.

Childhood trauma can leave children with distressing experiences that, if not addressed, can negatively impact their brain health. This can manifest in memory issues, affecting their concentration and retention abilities, which can have a significant impact on their behavior. Childhood trauma can also motivate offending behavior in children. Furthermore, it can make children vulnerable and trigger cognitive impairment, leading to other behavioral changes that can lead them down negative pathways.

Extensive Mental Health Training for Key Stakeholders

Parents, guardians, caregivers, teachers, and other influential individuals must receive comprehensive mental health training to comprehend the techniques and methods for effectively addressing children at various stages of development. This training should provide a deep understanding of mental health and child psychology to prevent the perpetuation of children who have experienced traumatic events. Such events can have counterproductive effects on their child development.

All schools and organizations that interact with children should establish counseling and trauma units staffed by certified mental health professionals. Regular seminars and workshops on child mental health should be encouraged to foster continuous learning and awareness.

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Child Care, Development and Mental Health: Issues
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Child Care, Development and Mental Health: Issues

Research has indicated that children experience a range of mental health difficulties, including fear, stress, and anxiety. These challenges often lead them to adopt negative coping mechanisms and pathways in response to their circumstances, which they may struggle to express effectively. Furthermore, studies have revealed that children encounter a variety of mental health challenges, including Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), depression, eating disorders, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), among others.

The consequences of neglecting the prioritization of child care, development, and mental health by parents, teachers, guardians, and caregivers can lead to the development of mental health-related issues in children. It is imperative that these individuals consistently observe children in their care, pay attention to their expressions, and provide a listening ear to their concerns. By doing so, they can identify potential challenges and promptly address them. Additionally, it is crucial to monitor children for any signs of mental health challenges, such as excessive shouting, threatening behavior, or verbal abuse. Such actions can have detrimental effects on a child’s mental well-being and may lead to low self-esteem. Therefore, it is essential to seek appropriate treatment for these challenges, as excessive punishment or trauma can further exacerbate the situation.

If you work with children, read the entire article and discover how to become a better Parent, Guardian, Caregiver, and Teacher by purchasing a copy of our Ebook.

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Let’s do drugs: Experimentation to Addiction
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Let’s do drugs: Experimentation to Addiction

Drugs can be categorized based on their effects on the body as follows:

  • Depressants: These substances slow down the function of the central nervous system by impeding the transmission of messages between the brain and the body. Alcohol is an example of a depressant. While depressants do not necessarily cause depression, they can impair concentration, coordination, and the ability to respond effectively to one’s surroundings.

  • Hallucinogens alter your perception of reality, affecting your senses and altering your perception of sight, sound, taste, smell, and touch. They can induce the experience of seeing or hearing things that are not physically present, or they can evoke unusual thoughts and emotions. A notable example of a hallucinogen is cannabis.

  • Stimulants: accelerate the function of the central nervous system. They enhance the transmission of signals between the brain and the body. This can lead to a rapid increase in heart rate and blood pressure, among other physiological effects. Examples include amphetamines such as ice, caffeine, molybdenum(Moly), and ecstasy.

The progression from experimentation to full-blown addiction is a cycle that is influenced by various factors. We often encounter pain or challenges in life, and during these moments, due to lack of positive coping skills, some people may discover substances that provide temporary relief from their distress. These substances can alter one’s emotional state and induce a sense of forgetfulness, leading to a cycle of addiction.

We discover through experimentation that we like the way it made us feel and wonder if it will make us feel the same way if repeated. And it does. In other words, this new substance or habit is predictable and reliable and in some cases, even more reliable than our relationships making us develop a love relationship with it. So anytime we become sad or experience unpleasant situations or pain, we repeat this routine. This goes on for maybe days weeks, months, maybe years.

Then suddenly life happens.

Another crisis comes that makes us feel bad and we use the substance again to make us feel happy, breaking the previous routine. Let’s call this: Crisis 2. We then develop tolerance to the drug because we are taking more of it due to the new crisis. Tolerance means increasing the drug use to get the same desired effect.

This new crisis could be crisis in the family, crisis at work, crisis with our health or so on and we develop a tolerance to the substance and because we are taking more of it due to the new crisis, the brain adjusts to the effects of this new level. The brain adjusting to the effect does not mean that our organs are safe with this new level because there is a limit to how much the human body can tolerate.

As drug use increases, so do the risks and consequences which lead to other issues for instance, legal issues: you may commit a crime under the influence, relationship issues: loved ones, family may stay away from you, financial issues: Drugs are expensive to buy. This now becomes a new crisis. Let’s call this: Crisis 3.

Remember that this new crisis is purely drug related, that is, the crisis happened as a result of consequences from our taking the substance.

All these new issues we are having lead us to want more of the drug and we increase the dose being taken in order to feel normal. Now you are in a worse state than when you started taking the drug plus you don't get as high so you take more. This stage is full blown addiction. The middle part of the brain, the limbic system is the reward system of the brain and only cares about chasing the next 15 seconds of pleasure at the cost of consequences and repercussions. all it wants is to get that fleeting pleasure. if we continue to feed this midbrain, the limbic system, giving it the 15 seconds of pleasure it so desperately wants, unfortunately our frontal lobes and conscience are ignored and we are turned into animals, controlled only by our pleasure seeking rather than our rational mind. The mid brain has taken over and at this stage, people can sacrifice their families, jobs, careers , their health, and their lives and get into legal issues,  personal issues just to feed this limbic system that has now become fully in charge of their lives.

The only way to recover from this full blown addiction is through abstinence because this helps the damaged or broken neurotransmitters in the brain to recover. The time frame for recovery depends on the individual and the level of damage  already done to the brain.

Remember that using drugs to escape from reality and pain is an illusion and the user only continues to deteriorate till the drug takes full control of the person -  psychological dependency.

Harmful consequences of drugs and addiction

1. Relationships suffer

Interpersonal conflicts arise due to the challenges of counseling or engaging in conversations with individuals who are under the influence of drugs. Their behavior and demeanor significantly alter their personality, making it difficult to maintain healthy relationships. Consequently, compromised relationships lead to isolation from essential connections, including family and other important individuals.

2. Crime

Additionally, there is a correlation between drugs and crime. Engaging in activities such as obtaining drugs or sustaining drug use can lead to legal consequences. For instance, consuming alcohol and driving or committing crimes under the influence of drugs can result in legal repercussions.

3. Financial Issues

Additionally, there are financial concerns, as we have previously discussed. The cost of obtaining and sustaining an addiction is substantial, and individuals may prioritize these expenses over essential necessities such as food, rent, and school fees.

4. Vocational skills

Drug use can impair the functioning of our cortex, which in turn affects our vocational skills such as the ability to acquire new knowledge, memory retention, speech, and movement. Consequently, our learning abilities are compromised, leading to impaired performance at work and school. This, in turn, can have a detrimental impact on our future prospects.

5. Immune system and health

Additionally, our immune system is compromised, rendering us susceptible to infections and compromising our overall health.

6. Spiritual lives

Additionally, there is the spiritual aspect of our lives that is adversely affected. This includes the suppression of our conscience, the disregard for shame and guilt, the disregard for our principles and values, and the eventual demise of our conscience.

Phases of addiction

1. Experimentation or pre contemplation.

At this juncture, the individual sees nothing wrong with the issue, rendering them indifferent to the necessity of implementing a change.

2. Social or recreational stage

This is the contemplation stage, where the individual recognizes the existence of a problem but lacks the motivation to effect change.

3. Harmful dependency.

This is a daily preoccupation, a stage in the decision-making process.

Individuals at this stage have both identified the drug problem and desire to change.

4. Addiction

This is the last stage where the individual is using it to feel normal, which is full blown addiction.

Seeking help: Our intervention (Stage1-Stage5)

Help for someone with drug or substance addiction depends on the stage of the addiction, but generally speaking, we help them weigh the court cost special benefits of the drug use in a non-judgmental way.

This will help them make informed choices and move forward in their lives because you cannot help someone who does not see that what they are doing is wrong.

Note: While the focus of this article is on drug and substance use and misuse, our intervention can be modified to suit other forms of addiction like gambling addiction, sex addiction and so on.

If you or your loved one are battling with addiction, Email us immediately at: Info@copeandlive.foundation

State 1

Our intervention at this stage strictly revolves around giving drug information, education and harm minimization.

The continuing part of this article which covers stages 2 through 5 of our intervention will be covered in our e-book.

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Our Identity, Values and Mental Health
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Our Identity, Values and Mental Health

‘‘False beliefs, or delusions, and false perceptions, or hallucinations, are characteristic symptoms of schizophrenia’’: The Pontifical Academy of Sciences.

Values form the core of our personal and social identity, deeply influencing how we relate with others and fostering a sense of belonging and emotional grounding. Values are tested in the face of mistreatment, need, adversity and deprivation.

Identity refers to the understanding of who we are, our self-concept, and how we perceive ourselves in relation to the world. It includes our beliefs, values, roles, and experiences, all of which shape how we interact with others and make decisions.

WHY VALUES ARE IMPORTANT

  • Values serve as a compass, guiding individuals towards a fulfilling life. They provide a sense of purpose and meaning, enabling people to make intentional decisions that align with their core principles.

  • Beyond personal fulfilment, values play a crucial role in fostering meaningful relationships. They enable individuals to establish boundaries, establish healthy connections, and develop relationships that respect their self-worth.

  • Furthermore, research suggests that individuals who adopt a value-based lifestyle tend to experience improved mental well-being. This is because values provide a framework for self-reflection and self-improvement, contributing to overall mental health and resilience.

  • At the societal level, values contribute to harmonious interactions and the achievement of collective goals that may be challenging to attain individually. They foster a sense of unity and purpose, enabling societies to progress and thrive.

  • In essence, values serve as a catalyst for personal growth, resilience, and the creation of a more fulfilling society. They empower individuals to shape their future and embrace their authentic selves, leading to a life of purpose and meaning.

BUILDING IDENTITY AND VALUES

The principles we hold dear, what we believe to be right or important, serve as a foundation for who we are. To build a strong identity, we must be clear about our values, as they influence our choices, actions, and the way we relate to the world. When we align our actions with our values, our sense of identity becomes stronger and more authentic.

HOW VALUES BUILD IDENTITY

Values act as the pillars that shape and reinforce our identity. When we prioritise certain values, such as honesty, compassion, or loyalty, these become defining traits in our identity. The consistency with which we live by our values solidifies our sense of self, giving us a clear understanding of who we are.

TYPES OF VALUES

There are various types of values that influence our identity. Some common categories include:

1. FAMILY VALUES:

Family values are the moral and ethical principles passed down from generation to generation, deeply rooted in tradition and culture. They shape how we view relationships, respect, and responsibilities within our close connections.

  • RESPECT:

Respect is foundational in family values, teaching us to honour others' perspectives and roles, particularly those of elders, while maintaining dignity in our interactions.

  • RESPONSIBILITY:

This value instils a sense of duty and accountability, whether in family life, work, or community.

  • LOVE AND SUPPORT:

Family values emphasise emotional bonding and care, encouraging mutual support and understanding during difficult times.

2. PERSONAL VALUES:

Personal values are individually developed principles that guide our personal decisions and actions. Unlike family values, which we inherit, personal values evolve based on our experiences and reflections.

  • INTEGRITY:

Integrity involves being honest and true to oneself, aligning actions with beliefs, and acting ethically in all situations.

  • AMBITION:

This value reflects the drive to achieve goals, pursue success, and strive for personal growth.

  • INDEPENDENCE:

Independence is the ability to make decisions and take actions autonomously, without being overly influenced by others.

Personal values help shape our unique identity, giving us a sense of direction and purpose. They allow us to navigate life's complexities with clarity and confidence.

3. CULTURAL VALUES:

These are shared beliefs and traditions within a community or society, guiding behaviours and worldview.

4. MORAL VALUES:

These concern principles of right and wrong, shaping ethical decision-making.

5. SPIRITUAL VALUES:

These involve beliefs rooted in faith or a higher purpose, shaping our sense of compassion and understanding of the world.

ARE IDENTITY AND PERSONALITY DIFFERENT?

While identity and personality are related, they are distinct concepts. Personality refers to the characteristics and traits we are born with or develop early in life, such as being introverted or extroverted. Identity, on the other hand, is shaped over time through our values, experiences, and decisions. While personality is more about behaviour, identity involves deeper aspects of belief and purpose.

KEY QUESTIONS TO REFLECT ON:

- WHO ARE YOU?

- WHAT DEFINES YOU?

- WHAT IS YOUR IDENTITY ROOTED IN?

- WHAT KEEPS YOU GROUNDED IN TIMES OF WEAKNESS?

Answering these questions helps clarify our values and reinforces our sense of identity. It is through self-reflection that we can better understand our inner selves and align our actions with our beliefs.

THE HEALING PROCESS

Identity and values are critical during times of struggle. When faced with difficulties or uncertainty, our values are put to the test and serve as a compass that helps us navigate challenges. Healing often begins with re-establishing our identity, recognising our strengths, and returning to the values that sustain us. As we reconnect with who we are and what we stand for, we find the resilience to overcome hardships and restore our mental health.

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Travel Anxiety and our Mental Health
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Travel Anxiety and our Mental Health

Travel anxiety occurs in the mind. It is very real and is also known as travel-related stress or travel phobia, refers to the heightened sense of worry, fear, or discomfort that some individuals experience when faced with the prospect of travelling. It can affect people at any point in their journey—before, during, or after travel. This form of anxiety can negatively affect a person’s mental health, impacting their ability to enjoy or even proceed with their trip and can even manifest with physical symptoms.

 WHY SOME PEOPLE MAY HAVE TRAVEL ANXIETY

People may experience travel anxiety for various reasons, often stemming from their fear of the unknown or concerns about potential risks associated with the trip. Local travel anxiety often stems from unique, localised challenges that travellers encounter. Here are some of the most common reasons:

ROAD ACCIDENTS: Fear of unsafe driving, poor road conditions, or vehicle breakdowns on poorly maintained roads.

KIDNAPPING AND CRIME: Concerns over personal safety, especially in areas with higher rates of crime or kidnapping.

UNLAWFUL HARASSMENT: Anxiety around the potential for unwarranted stops, questioning, or extortion from law enforcement while travelling.

COST OF TRANSPORTATION: Financial stress due to high or unpredictable travel costs, especially during peak travel times or economic instability.

FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN: Uncertainty about the destination, unfamiliar locations, whether one would get to their destination unscathed, and cultural differences.

FINANCIAL STRESS: The pressure of budgeting, expenses, or managing money during travel.

LOGISTICAL ISSUES: Worries about transportation delays, sudden flight changes and cancellations, unreliable transit schedules, or issues with directions and navigation.

SOCIAL ANXIETY: Discomfort in busy or unfamiliar spaces, especially when in congested areas.

PAST NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES: Prior experiences of delays, crime, or other traumatic and unpleasant situations may leave individuals about to travel having lingering anxiety.

 SYMPTOMS OF TRAVEL ANXIETY

Symptoms of travel anxiety can vary, often including:

  1. RESTLESSNESS AND IRRITABILITY

  2. TROUBLE SLEEPING BEFORE TRAVEL

  3. RAPID HEARTBEAT OR SWEATING

  4. STOMACH DISCOMFORT OR NAUSEA

  5. AVOIDANCE OF PLANNING OR OUTRIGHTLY CANCELLING TRIPS

HOW TO OVERCOME TRAVEL ANXIETY

PLAN AND PREPARE AHEAD:

Research your route and destination thoroughly, check transportation options, and be aware of the safest routes and any high-risk areas, book accommodations in advance, make a packing list, and have a solid itinerary. Knowing these details and being well-prepared reduces the fear of the unknown, helps you feel more in control, can give you more confidence and reduces uncertainty.

PRACTICE RELAXATION TECHNIQUES:

Incorporate deep breathing, mindfulness, or light stretches to calm yourself before and during the journey. These can help manage stress responses and keep your mind focused on the present.

POSITIVE SELF-TALK:

Challenge negative thoughts by reminding yourself that you are capable of handling any situation that may arise and that travel can be a positive experience. Reframing travel as an opportunity rather than a threat can help reduce anxiety.

 LIMIT CAFFEINE AND SUGAR:

Opt for water or herbal teas to stay hydrated and reduce stimulants that can elevate anxiety.

TAKE BREAKS AND MOVE YOUR BODY:

Physical activity helps reduce anxiety, so make sure to include light exercise in your routine before and during travel. Whether it’s stretching, walking, or doing light yoga, movement releases tension and helps improve mood.

SEEK SUPPORT FROM FRIENDS, FAMILY, OR PROFESSIONALS:

Talking to someone who understands your concerns can be immensely helpful. Reach out to supportive friends or family members. If travel anxiety significantly impacts your daily life, consider speaking to a mental health professional for additional support and strategies.

START SMALL:

If travel anxiety is severe, consider starting with small trips close to home. Gradually increasing the distance and complexity of your trips can help desensitise you to the stress of travel over time.

CREATE A COMFORT KIT:

Bring a small kit with essentials that bring comfort, such as snacks, water, headphones, and a relaxing playlist. Having these on hand can help calm your nerves throughout the journey.

FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE EXPERIENCES:

Shift your focus from the potential problems to the joys of travel. Embrace the opportunity to see new places, meet new people, and create memories. Focusing on the positive aspects of travel can counterbalance anxiety.

CONCLUSION:

Travel anxiety is common and can present real challenges, but it doesn’t need to hold you back from reaching your destination. By understanding and preparing for your specific triggers and utilising coping techniques, you can learn to manage this anxiety effectively thereby improving your mental health. Remember, travel is about discovery—not only of new places but also of your own resilience and capacity for growth. You will discover new places and find comfort in your own capabilities. Take each journey step by step, knowing that each trip strengthens your confidence and skill for navigating future travel.

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Understanding and dealing with Menstrual Depression
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Understanding and dealing with Menstrual Depression

Menstrual depression refers to the emotional and physical symptoms that occur before or during menstruation. It can lead to intense mood swings, irritability, anxiety, sadness, and other debilitating symptoms that interfere with daily functioning. Premenstrual dysphoric disorder(PMDD) is the clinical diagnosis for severe menstrual depression, and it can affect a woman’s mental health, relationships, and overall quality of life.

COMMON SYMPTOMS:

  • INTENSE MOOD SWINGS: Extreme irritability, sadness, or anger.

  • HEAVY FATIGUE: Persistent tiredness that doesn’t improve with rest.

  • ANXIETY: Increased stress or nervousness, often without a clear cause.

  • PHYSICAL PAIN: Cramps, headaches, and muscle aches.

  • SLEEPING TROUBLES: Difficulty falling or staying asleep, or sleeping excessively.

  • APPETITE CHANGES: Overeating or lack of appetite.

IMPACT ON A WOMAN’S LIFE

  • SOCIAL ISOLATION: Women may feel disconnected from family, friends, and colleagues due to mood swings or physical discomfort.

  • WORK IMPACT: Difficulty concentrating or completing tasks, affecting job performance.

  • RELATIONSHIP STRAIN: The emotional toll can strain personal relationships, causing misunderstandings and conflicts.

CULTURAL STIGMA:

In many cultures, menstruation is stigmatised, often viewed as a taboo subject. Women experiencing menstrual depression may be told to avoid certain activities, attend certain places, or keep their condition hidden due to societal beliefs about menstruation. This cultural stigma can intensify feelings of isolation and shame, making the mental and emotional impact of menstrual depression even more challenging to cope with.

MANAGING MENSTRUAL DEPRESSION:

  • MAINTAIN A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE: Balanced nutrition, regular exercise, and proper sleep can help reduce symptoms.

  • PRACTICE STRESS MANAGEMENT: Techniques such as meditation, yoga, or deep breathing can help manage anxiety and irritability.

  • BUILD A SUPPORT SYSTEM: Having a strong network of friends, family, or support groups can provide much-needed understanding and encouragement.

  • EDUCATE OTHERS: Raise awareness about menstrual health to combat stigma and create more supportive environments for women.

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD): A clog in the wheel of a compassionate society
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD): A clog in the wheel of a compassionate society

Rivalry and a lack of compassion in our society are often the result of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). A classic example of this can be found in the Bible, where King Herod murdered all boys two years and under in his kingdom while attempting to kill Jesus Christ. He had requested the wise men to find the exact location of the new king and inform him so that he could worship him as well, intending to kill him. After his deception was revealed to the wise men by God, he became enraged when they failed to return and used the state’s agencies to murder children so that he would remain the sole ruler.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a behavior and a mental health condition characterized by an unreasonably high sense of self-importance. Studies have shown that individuals with NPD typically require and seek excessive attention and desire to be admired solely by others. Furthermore, research indicates that such individuals may lack the ability to comprehend or empathize with the feelings of others, which is counterproductive to the promotion of a compassionate society.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, particularly with regard to a lack of empathy. It also entails a disregard for the feelings of others and an excessive need for admiration. Instead of caring for others, showing compassion, and creating positive community impact, individuals with NPD prioritize seeking attention and admiration. Studies have demonstrated that individuals with NPD are prevalent in various aspects of human endeavors, posing a threat to the progress of a progressive society because they are inherently self-centered and arrogant, always preoccupied with themselves and seeking admiration.

When an individual with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) experiences intense jealousy and perceives you as a threat, they may initiate a smear campaign to damage your reputation. Research conducted by neurological brain behavior experts suggests that the primary objective of such a campaign is to isolate and disparage their opponent, regardless of their familial or professional relationships. This strategy aims to prevent the opponent from raising concerns, thereby undermining their credibility.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapists caution that individuals who accept the smear campaign without considering the opponent’s perspective have never been on their side. Such individuals often harbor negative feelings towards the person involved.

The primary motivation behind the smear campaign is the narcissist’s fear of exposure. Narcissists are aware of their wrongdoing and seek to conceal it. Individuals with NPD recognize their malicious, abusive, and manipulative tactics and resort to smearing others to regain control.

When a narcissist perceives a loss of control, they redirect their efforts towards manipulating the narratives surrounding their opponent’s reputation.

Does the person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) experience any negative effects? 

In essence, every action has a corresponding consequence, which may leave the individual with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) in a state of regret and depression. This behavior causes worry, stress, and a lack of peace of mind for the person with such a disorder. They are never fully satisfied and consistently lose competent men and women around them. If left untreated and addressed through therapy, the person with NPD can increase the likelihood of developing other mental illnesses and disorders.

We are all called to love one another and to be our brothers’ keepers. Let us increase the love, concern, and empathy for one another and for a compassionate society.

For further information about how individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) affect those around them, please refer to the following: https://www.copeandlive.foundation/blog/narcissistic-mother

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Law enforcement and mental health issues
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Law enforcement and mental health issues

According to the International Association of Chiefs of Police and other stakeholders, mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, stress, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) have been identified as prevalent issues among law enforcement officers worldwide, including in Nigeria.

The mental well-being of officers significantly impacts their performance at work, particularly in critical aspects of public safety, such as making quick and effective decisions under pressure.

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Giant stride
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Giant stride

COPE & LIVE MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS FOUNDATION EXPRESSES OPTIMISM ON POSITIVE OUTCOMES ON PARTNERSHIP WITH CAPIO ON HEALTH CARE INTERVENTIONS FOR CUSTODIAL CENTRES

On November 12, 2024, the Executive Director of the Cope and Live Mental Health Awareness Foundation, Reverend Chukwudiebube Nwachukwu, expressed optimism about the positive outcomes that will arise from the partnership with the Carmelite Prisoners Interest Organization Nigeria (CAPIONG) on Health Care Intervention For Enugu Custodial Centres. This expression was made in response to the health care intervention shortly after a project planning meeting with the project team members was held in the conference room of CAPIONG’s Bent Lane office, GRA Enugu.

According to Reverend Nwachukwu, the project outlines holistic health care interventions that are supported by psychosocial engagement and medical outreaches. It is anticipated that these interventions will yield desired results by improving the general well-being and existence of inmates.

He commended the efforts of CAPIONG for their significant strides in health care interventions for custodial centers in Enugu, which will commence in January 2025. It was gathered that the partnership team with CAPIONG includes medical professionals, pharmacists, and mental health professionals/counselors from the Cope and Live Mental Health Awareness Foundation.

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Effects of Alone Time on Mental Health
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Effects of Alone Time on Mental Health

Alone time is not just an indulgence; it is an essential part of maintaining mental health and overall well-being. In today’s fast-paced world, many people forget the value of spending time with themselves, away from the demands of work, family, and social obligations. This article explores why alone time is crucial and how it can significantly impact mental health.

WHY IT MATTERS

Studies show that people who regularly set aside time for themselves experience lower levels of stress and improved mood. Being alone doesn’t mean being lonely. Alone time is about reconnecting with oneself, processing thoughts, and finding inner peace. It allows individuals to recharge, refocus, and gain clarity, ultimately boosting creativity, self-awareness, and emotional resilience.

IT’S OK TO PLAN TO DO NOTHING

One of the most underrated truths is that it’s perfectly fine to plan to do absolutely nothing. Embracing stillness is a powerful act of self-care. When you take intentional breaks without the pressure to be productive, you grant your mind and body the space to rest and rejuvenate. This simple habit can prevent burnout and improve mental health over time.

WHAT TO DO DURING YOUR ALONE TIME

Alone time doesn’t have to be structured or complicated. Here are some activities to consider that can enhance your mental health:

  • MEDITATION:

Helps calm the mind and increase awareness.

  • SIT DOWN AND LISTEN TO CALMING MUSIC:

Reduces anxiety and elevates mood.

  • BREATHE DEEPLY:

Simple deep breathing exercises can lower stress levels.

  • PRACTICE MINDFULNESS:

Be present in the moment and observe your thoughts without judgement.

  • TAKE A NATURE WALK:

Enjoying the outdoors can boost both physical and mental well-being.

  • PLAY WITH KIDS OR PETS:

Engaging in playful activities can bring joy and lighten your heart.

  • CLOSE YOUR EYES AND LIE DOWN:

Resting your body helps reset your mind.

  • HUM OR SING:

This produces endorphins and enhances your mood.

FINDING YOUR PEACE

Alone time is a personal experience, so tailor it to what makes you feel at ease. Whether it’s praying, journaling, reading, or just lying in silence, the goal is to find what renews your spirit. Regularly taking these moments for yourself fosters better emotional regulation and a stronger connection to who you are.

CONCLUSION

Alone time is not a luxury; it is an essential investment in your mental health. It is okay to plan to do nothing and simply be. Prioritise your moments of solitude, embrace stillness, and engage in activities that nourish your soul. The benefits you gain will ripple into every aspect of your life, enhancing not only your mental health but your overall happiness and fulfilment. Try and practice this for just 15 minutes a day.

#treasureyourmentalhealth

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The Wheel of Life: A depiction of balance and fulfillment
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The Wheel of Life: A depiction of balance and fulfillment

Imagine your life as a wheel, with each spoke representing a different aspect of your life. When all the spokes are balanced, the wheel turns smoothly, leading to a more harmonious existence. If one or more spokes are out of alignment, the wheel becomes uneven, affecting the overall quality of your life.

The Wheel of Life is a visual imagery used to evaluate different aspects of an individual’s life. It represents personal growth and helps individuals achieve a balanced lifestyle by highlighting areas that need more focus and improvement.

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Paternity fraud, Mental Health & The family
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Paternity fraud, Mental Health & The family

Paternity fraud is a situation where a man is misled into believing he is the biological father of a child when, in fact, he is not. This can happen deliberately or unintentionally, but regardless of how it comes about, the implications for the man, the mother, the child, and the entire family are profound. This form of deception touches not just the fabric of trust within a relationship but also has lasting emotional and psychological consequences for everyone involved.

THE FATHER'S SHOCK AND ANGER

One of the most devastating effects of paternity fraud is felt by the father. The man who has been raising a child, thinking he is the biological father, may experience profound emotions when the truth is uncovered.

The key emotions and effects the father may experience include:

  • Shock

  • Anger

  • Betrayal

  • Insecurity

  • Self-doubt

  • Identity crisis

  • Depression

  • Anxiety

  • Paranoia

  • Isolation

  • Self-destructive behaviour

The father’s sense of identity as a father may crumble, and his emotional investment in the child and family may feel shattered. As a result, he might experience depression, anxiety, or even self-destructive behaviour, such as substance abuse or violent outbursts. His ability to trust his partner or others in the future may also be deeply impacted.

THE WIFE'S SECRET FEAR

For the wife, who has either knowingly or unknowingly deceived her husband, the weight of carrying such a secret can take a profound toll on her mental health.

The key emotional effects on the wife include:

  • Guilt

  • Fear

  • Chronic stress

  • Shame

  • Emotional exhaustion

  • Depression

  • Physical symptoms(headaches, insomnia, etc.)

  • Emotional withdrawal

The wife’s constant fear of being exposed can lead to chronic stress and even emotional exhaustion, which may affect her ability to interact with her family or maintain her well-being. Over time, this emotional burden may result in distant and cold relationships with her spouse and children, as guilt consumes her.

THE CHILD'S PAIN AND CONFUSION

Paternity fraud doesn’t only affect the parents; the child also experiences emotional turmoil upon discovering that the man they thought was their biological father is not.

The key emotional effects on the child include:

  • Betrayal

  • Confusion

  • Rejection

  • Trust issues

  • Abandonment

  • Self-worth struggles

  • Emotional withdrawal

  • Anxiety

  • Depression

The child may feel betrayed and confused, leading to trust issues with not just their parents but with others around them. They may feel rejection and a diminished sense of self-worth, causing them to emotionally withdraw from their family and friends. This may result in depression, anxiety, and long-term mental health struggles.

IMPACT ON THE FAMILY UNIT

The revelation of paternity fraud can have a ripple effect throughout the entire family. Relationships once built on trust may break down, leading to:

  • Trust breakdown

  • Conflict

  • Blame and resentment

  • Separation and divorce

  • Family fragmentation

RECOMMENDATIONS

With the help of therapy, the family may choose to seek honesty, healing, and reconciliation. This requires a commitment to forgiveness, open communication, and rebuilding trust over time. Children, too, need support to process their feelings and regain a sense of emotional security.

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CLIMHAF UNDERWAYS RESEARCH FOR EVIDENCED-BASED PREVENTIVE INTERVENTIONS AND PROBLEM SOLVING ON MENTAL HEALTH
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CLIMHAF UNDERWAYS RESEARCH FOR EVIDENCED-BASED PREVENTIVE INTERVENTIONS AND PROBLEM SOLVING ON MENTAL HEALTH

The Cope and Live Mental Health Awareness Foundation Resource Centre has commenced a comprehensive research survey. The survey’s primary objective is to establish a practical and achievable framework for the development of evidence-based treatment and preventive interventions in the field of mental health. This initiative was unveiled to journalists in Enugu on November 6, 2024, by the Executive Director, Reverend Chukwudiebube Nwachukwu.

The survey comprises two distinct segments. The first segment focuses on unraveling violent behaviours, identifying their underlying causes, and examining their impacts on individuals and communities. The second segment centres on the effects of incarceration on female inmates.

Rev. Nwachukwu further highlighted the survey’s focus on the low level of knowledge and awareness regarding mental health in Nigeria. The survey’s primary objectives are to address this issue through an evidence-based approach. The research aims to elucidate the underlying causes, risks, and protective factors associated with mental health conditions. Additionally, it seeks to advance the development and implementation of early interventions, enhance treatment options, and increase accessibility to care for those in need.

In unraveling Violent Behaviour, its root causes, and consequences on individuals and communities, the team comprises experts in mental health and PREVENT Serious and Organised Crime (SOC) Policing, youth crime, and societal misconduct. In the area of the Effects of Incarceration on Female Inmates, the Research Survey team will collaborate with partners to conduct a credible survey based on evidence for joint problem-solving.

Mental Health Research Surveys play a pivotal role in advancing our understanding of mental health conditions and their impacts on individuals and society. The Research Survey will also lead to the identification of root causes, risks, and protective factors to pave the way for evidence-based preventive interventions and explore neurological brain behaviour to address health disparities.

However, he expressed regret that mental health research surveys face significant underfunding and under-prioritisation by governments, organisations, ministries, departments, and agencies worldwide. He argued that, “This neglect hinders our ability to capitalise on breakthroughs achieved in other healthcare domains and emphasises the transformative potential of mental health to reshape individuals’ lives and enhance their overall well-being”.

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The Psychological impact of Loneliness on Mental Wellbeing
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The Psychological impact of Loneliness on Mental Wellbeing

Loneliness is a silent storm that insidiously chips away at our well-being. It is the feeling of being alone, often in the midst of people. It can deeply impact our mental health, leading to severe emotional distress and long-term psychological harm. Loneliness can be deadly. Let’s explore the devastating effects of loneliness on mental health and why we should never choose isolation as an option. Loneliness is not reserved for the old alone. Infact, recent studies show that “young adults have the highest rates of loneliness, with 27% of people ages 19 to 29 reporting feeling very or fairly lonely” - (CNN, The loneliness epidemic: Nearly 1 in 4 adults feel lonely, new survey finds, 24th October 2024).

HOW LONELINESS AFFECTS MENTAL HEALTH

Loneliness is not just an emotional state, it can be physically painful, too. Studies have shown that chronic loneliness can increase stress levels, weaken the immune system, and lead to depression and anxiety. When people feel lonely, their minds begin to spiral into feelings of worthlessness and despair, which can result in a decline in overall mental health. Left unchecked, loneliness can trigger deeper issues like social anxiety, fear of rejection, and even suicidal thoughts.

WHY WE SHOULDN'T CHOOSE TO BE LONELY

Choosing to isolate yourself can be a dangerous coping mechanism. While solitude can sometimes be healthy for self-reflection, prolonged loneliness can turn into an emotional prison. When we isolate ourselves, we deny the human need for connection, warmth, and support, which are vital for emotional well-being. Loneliness makes us vulnerable, leading to negative thoughts that can harm our mental health. It's important to remember that no one thrives in isolation; we all need meaningful relationships to stay mentally strong.

WHY ARE MOST PEOPLE LONELY?

Many people find themselves in lonely situations due to various reasons:

  • SOCIAL MEDIA ILLUSION:

In today’s digital world, people often replace real human connections with social media interactions, which can deepen feelings of loneliness.

  • FEAR OF REJECTION:

Some avoid relationships or connections because they fear being judged or rejected by others.

  • PAST TRAUMA:

People who have been hurt or betrayed in the past may struggle to trust others, choosing to remain emotionally distant.

  • MENTAL HEALTH STRUGGLES:

Anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues can push people away from social settings, making it difficult to connect with others.

HOW TO OVERCOME LONELINESS

Overcoming loneliness requires taking steps toward reconnection:

  • REACH OUT:

Don’t be afraid to reach out to friends or family, even if it’s just for a small chat. Sometimes, a simple conversation can help break the feeling of isolation.

  • JOIN A COMMUNITY:

Engage in activities that interest you, whether it’s joining a club, attending social events, or participating in group activities. Being around others can help build a sense of belonging.

  • PRACTICE SELF COMPASSION:

Be kind to yourself and understand that loneliness is a part of the human experience. Remind yourself that everyone feels lonely at times, and it’s okay to seek help.

  • PROFESSIONAL HELP:

If loneliness is overwhelming, consider speaking to a therapist or counsellor who can guide you through coping mechanisms and help rebuild your emotional connections.

  • SHOW LOVE TO PEOPLE:

You never know who is lonely. The chatterbox in a group might be the most lonely in the group.

BREAKING FREE FROM LONELINESS

No one deserves to suffer in silence. Loneliness can feel like a deep pit, but the key to climbing out is reaching for the hands of those around you. Real human connection (not social media), is powerful and healing, and with effort and patience, you can move away from the shadow of loneliness. Choose connection, not isolation; it's a lifeline for your mental health. #treasureyourmentalhealth

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Effects of GBV on Mental Health
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Effects of GBV on Mental Health

Gender based violence (GBV) is violence that is targeted at women or men because of their sex and/or their socially constructed gender roles. It is any harmful act that results in, or is likely to result in physical, sexual or psychological harm or suffering to a girl, boy, man or woman on the basis of their gender.

Basically GBV may take many forms for instance it could be Domestic, Physical, Sexual, Psychological, Emotional or Economic violence.

Let us look at each of these forms in brief:

Domestic Violence:

This consists of a variety of abusive acts, occurring in multiple episodes over the course of the relationship. Some episodes consist of a sustained attack with one tactic repeated many times (e.g., punching), combined with a variety of other tactics (such as name calling (like dull), threats, or attacks against property). Other episodes consist of a single act (e.g., a slap, a “certain look”) Mostly common in the same household.

PhysicalViolence:

This may include spitting, biting, shaking, pushing, throwing, slapping or beating (with open or closed hand), punching, burning, and/or use of weapons (e.g., household objects, knives, guns) against the survivor. The physical assaults may or may not cause injuries.

Sexual violence:

It can take many forms and take place under very different circumstances. A person can be sexually violated by one individual or several people (e.g. gang-rapes); the incident may be planned or a surprise attack. Although sexual violence occurs most commonly in the survivor's home (or in the perpetrator’s home), it also takes place in many other settings, such as the workplace, at school, in prisons, cars, on the streets or open spaces (e.g. parks, farmland). The perpetrator of a sexual assault may be a mate, a friend, a family member, an intimate partner or former intimate partner, or a complete stranger, but more often than not, is someone known to the survivor. Common example of this may include Non-consensual touching and seduction or sexual harassment by superior or vice versa.

Note that:

  • In Nigeria seven percent of women age 15-49 report having experienced sexual violence at least once in their lifetime.

  • According to 2013 NDHS shows about 3.7 percent (795 women) report experienced sexual violence in Sokoto State alone.

Psychological Violence:

Example of such violence in the public places includes the isolation of young women or men who do not act according to traditional gender roles. Isolation is not only used by peer groups, but even responsible adults – such as teachers and sports coaches. Most typically, isolation means exclusion from certain group activities, community engagements, festivities etc. It can also include intimidation, threats to “harm” by means or words e.g. “I’m going to kill you,” “No one is going to have you,” or with actions (e.g. displaying weapons, hostage taking, suicide attempts). It could also be through the use of children. Some abusive acts are directed against or involve children in order to control or punish the adult victim. A perpetrator may use children to maintain control over his partner by threatening to take children away from her/him, involving her/him in long legal fights over custody, or kidnapping or taking the children hostage as a way to force the survivor’s compliance.

EmotionalViolence:

It takes a form of a tactical of control that consists of a wide variety of verbal attacks and humiliations, including repeated verbal attacks against the survivor’s worth as an individual or role as a parent, family member, friend, co-worker, or community member. It may also include humiliating the victim in front of family, friends or strangers. Perpetrators may repeatedly claim that survivors are crazy, incompetent, and unable “to do anything right, you are not capable of being a husband; I regretted having you as a wife” etc.

Economic Violence:

Perpetrators control survivors by controlling their access to resources: time, transportation, food, clothing, shelter, insurance, and money. It does not matter who the primary provider is or if both partners contribute. S/He may actively resist the survivor becoming financially self-sufficient as a way to maintain power and control. Conversely, S/he may refuse to work and insist that s/he support the family.

Factors causing GBV:

The factors are many, but below are the major ones:

  • Societal, cultural-related reasons

  • Ethnicity and differences

  • Disabilities and social status

  • Structure and bureaucratic systems

  • Lack of communication

The Consequences of GBV

Most identified consequences of Gender Based violence are:

  1. Physical health consequences

  2. Psychologically health consequences

  3. Academic consequences

  4. Socio-cultural effects

  5. Unwanted pregnancy

  6. Sexually transmitted infections

  7. Depression

  8. Anxiety

  9. Death/Suicide/murder

  10. Stigmatisation

  11. Physical injuries

Responses:

These are some of the responses to addressing issue of GBV:

  1. Medical services especially where there is physical injury or harm

  2. Legal and security services

  3. Mental health and psychosocial support

  4. Livelihoods

Prevention:

GBV infringes upon the right of an individual and also violates other fundamental human rights, predominantly those of the rights of the individual to human dignity and personal integrity. Therefore the following solutions were suggested:

  1. Encourage reforms that strengthen gender equity in the overall government system, for example interventions that include gender perspectives and tools in designing and development of government programs and activities. This should include the development and implementation of policies and action plans on how to address all types of violence, including GBV, to specifically foster a safe and discrimination free society.

  2. Create a gender aware counselling system that gives effective support to victims/survivors of GBV.

  3. Improve safety at public places such as schools, hospitals, markets and on the way including establishing a safe and violence-free environment by improving infrastructure such as transportation, separate sanitation facilities and improved lightening.

  4. Improve the performance of Legal System to be able to respond to GBV issues timely and comprehensively.

  5. Involve local communities, religious, traditional and political leaders as well as other CBO’s to not only change attitudes and behaviours at the societal level, but also assure that perpetrators are held accountable for their actions and get appropriate punishment they deserved

  6. Support group education combined with community mobilisation. These interventions usually provide training on topics like masculinities, gender and GBV to adolescents who in turn mobilise others through different community events.

  7. When GBV does occur, there should be clear, safe and accessible procedures and mechanisms in place for reporting incidents, assisting victims and referring cases to the appropriate authorities. Responses to GBV should ensure the availability of easily-accessible, confidential reporting mechanisms, healthcare services including counselling and support, and referral to law enforcement.

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SOCIAL ISOLATION, OUR WELL-BEING AND MENTAL HEALTH (part 1)
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SOCIAL ISOLATION, OUR WELL-BEING AND MENTAL HEALTH (part 1)

Social isolation refers to the absence of regular social interactions and relationships with others. It can result from physical barriers such as the remoteness of one’s dwelling or workplace.

Whether intentional or unintentional, social isolation can hinder our ability to connect with the world around us, silencing our voices and limiting our interactions with others. It prevents us from experiencing the joy and companionship that we so desperately seek, and need.

WHY DO SOME PEOPLE ISOLATE THEMSELVES?

The weight of emotional pain can be tremendous, and for many, isolation may seem like the only way out. But why do people choose to isolate, even when loneliness becomes unbearable?

  • TO PROTECT THEMSELVES EMOTIONALLY:

When life becomes overwhelming, some people seek isolation to protect themselves from further emotional trauma. It feels like a safe haven, where people may recuperate without the burden of socialising.

  • LACK OF TRUST IN OTHERS:

After being betrayed or damaged, it is tough to trust again. Isolation appears to be a technique to avoid being harmed by others while also giving one a sense of control over their emotional sensitivity.

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REMAINING SELF AWARE UNDER PROVOCATION
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REMAINING SELF AWARE UNDER PROVOCATION

True strength lies in restraint…

We all get provoked and have at some point provoked others as well. Controlling our emotions in the heat of the moment is an attribute that few possess.

Unchecked anger and a sense of entitlement and superiority only serve to escalate conflict and leave lasting memories of regrets when the heat dies down. Remember that, ‘’a soft tongue can break a bone’’ and ‘’harsh words stir up anger’’. A moment of emotional indiscretion can lead to a lifetime of regrets, a damaged reputation, loss of relationships or worse. True strength lies in restraint, humility, and understanding.

If you are in a position of leadership, power or authority, do not allow the fleeting status or other advantages to cloud your judgement, believing it grants you the right to treat others as you please. They are transient. When impunity, arrogance and entitlement take over, they can blind one to the impact of one’s actions, often leading to severe and irreversible consequences. Power is a responsibility not a licence for impunity.

People act with impunity because they lack self awareness. When individuals are not in tune with their emotions, they can let pride or ego dictate their thoughts and their behaviours.

Self awareness is vital to our human interactions because it allows us to step back, assess our actions, and understand how we’re impacting those around us. Without it, many fail to recognise the line between authority and abuse, or between confidence and arrogance.

True greatness is marked not by the titles we hold, but by the kindness we show, treating everyone with dignity. Respecting others, regardless of status, is not only wise; it is essential to building a society rooted in empathy, accountability, and genuine human connection. We must remember that power is fleeting, but integrity and respect endure, and they are what truly make a person worthy of admiration.

REMAINING SELF AWARE UNDER PROVOCATION

Be self aware. Learn to master your emotions. It is said that whoever can get you angry can control you.

Love your neighbour as yourself.

Deliberately identify, learn, avoid or master your emotional triggers. It could be a rude comment or behaviour etc.

Be humble and avoid pride - It’s not about you.

Walk away from a tense environment if you can.

Take deep breaths and countdown from 10.

Pray about it and remain calm and reasonable.

Remember that escalation (Verbal or Physical), can lead to outcomes that you can never foresee.

Your reaction to an event usually dictates the outcome.

Change your viewpoint - a lot of issues are caused by simple misunderstandings and do not appear so serious with the passage of time.

Talk to a counsellor about your emotions and their triggers.

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CHILDHOOD TRAUMA AND MENTAL HEALTH: UNDERSTANDING ITS IMPACT ON YOUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS
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CHILDHOOD TRAUMA AND MENTAL HEALTH: UNDERSTANDING ITS IMPACT ON YOUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS

Childhood trauma refers to a deeply distressing events experienced by a child. This can be a single event or prolonged exposure to harmful situations. Traumatic experiences in childhood often disrupt the brain's development, which impacts emotional regulation, learning, and the ability to form healthy relationships.

Examples of Childhood Trauma Include:

  • PHYSICAL ABUSE

  • EMOTIONAL ABUSE

  • SEXUAL ABUSE

  • NEGLECT

  • BULLYING

  • EXPOSURE TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

  • PARENTAL SEPARATION OR LOSS

Children who experience trauma may not understand or know how to process what has happened to them, leading to emotional and psychological scars that persist into adulthood.

SYMPTOMS AND EFFECTS OF CHILDHOOD TRAUMA

Childhood trauma doesn’t just disappear with time. It manifests in various emotional, physical, and psychological symptoms that can affect a person for years and affects their mental health adversely.

Common Symptoms of Childhood Trauma Include:

  • ANXIETY:

Constant worry, feeling unsafe even in non-threatening environments.

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Profound Impact Of Drugs On Human Relationship
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Profound Impact Of Drugs On Human Relationship

It is quite disturbing the rate at which drugs are produced, promoted, and hawked in every corner and in every country. People make it their business to concoct and sell such drugs as business and in the process lower the standard of living of those hooked on them.

It needs writing on what its necessary to regard as a plague. Psychotropic drugs can significantly impact the humanity and relationships of individuals who are addicted to them. These substances affect mental processes and mood and can lead to profound changes in behaviour, perception, and emotional regulation.

There are several key ways psychotropic drugs can influence individuals and their relationships. One common one among them is changes in behaviour and personality. Users of psychotropic drugs often experience extreme mood swings, which can disrupt their usual demeanour. For instance, stimulants may lead to heightened energy and euphoria, while depressants can cause lethargy or apathy.

It is common knowledge that many psychotropic substances can impair decision-making and judgment which might lead individuals to engage in risky or reckless behaviours that they would typically avoid, causing strain in relationships.

Emotional numbing and detachment give rise to diminished empathy is another consequence of chronic use of some psychotropic drugs, such as opioids or certain antidepressants. It can lead to emotional numbness and persons hooked may struggle to connect with others, resulting in a lack of empathy and diminished capacity for emotional engagement.

Users may withdraw from social situations due to stigma, shame, or the need to seek out drugs. This withdrawal can result in isolation and damage social ties with family and friends such as family and relationships.

Other impacts of reliance on psychotropic drugs include dishonesty and broken promises, which erode trust in relationships. Partners, family members, and friends may feel betrayed or manipulated, leading to conflict and resentment; relationships can become codependent, where loved ones enable destructive behaviours out of concern or fear of confrontation. This dynamic can create a toxic environment that perpetuates addiction.

Conflict and violence also result from drug use as some substances, particularly stimulants like methamphetamine, can increase aggression and irritability. This can escalate conflicts within relationships, leading to potential violence or abuse; The stress associated with maintaining an addiction such as financial strain, legal issues, or health problems often spills over into personal relationships, heightening tension and conflict; individuals may gravitate toward others who use psychotropic drugs, leading to a complete change in their social circle. These relationships may lack depth, focusing primarily on shared drug use rather than forming genuine connections.

Cases abound in which the stigma surrounding addiction can lead individuals to feel shame, isolating them further from supportive relationships causing friends and family members to feel helpless or unsure how to assist, leading to mutual alienation.

Chronic use of psychotropic drugs can exacerbate underlying mental health conditions or create new ones, such as anxiety, depression, or psychosis. These issues can further complicate relationships and impede personal development.

These situations inadvertently lead to a reduction in the quality of Life. Over time, the negative consequences of addiction can outweigh any temporary relief or pleasure derived from drug use. This deterioration affects not only the individual’s social connections but also their overall quality of life.

The impact of psychotropic drugs on individuals and their relationships is profound and multifaceted. Addiction can lead to behavioural changes, emotional detachment, conflict, and shifting social connections, creating a cycle that is difficult to break. Addressing addiction often requires comprehensive treatment and support, which can help individuals regain control of their lives and rebuild meaningful relationships. Ultimately, empathy, understanding, and effective intervention are crucial for supporting those affected by addiction.

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MENTAL HEALTH AT WORK: A SILENT CRISIS
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MENTAL HEALTH AT WORK: A SILENT CRISIS

In today's fast-paced world, the workplace has become a significant source of stress for many individuals. While employers often focus on productivity and meeting targets, the mental well-being of both them and their employees is frequently overlooked. This oversight can have serious consequences, not only for the workers but also for the overall success of the company, impacting the overall economy negatively.

THE TRANSPORTERS' DILEMMA

Bus and Train drivers face a unique set of challenges. These individuals are entrusted with the safety of countless passengers, yet their own mental health is rarely considered. Usually, employers just hand them the keys and send them off to convey travellers to their destinations without inquiring about their mental state. This neglect can have dangerous consequences, especially when drivers are dealing with personal issues, family problems, or financial stress. Overworked and under-appreciated, these transporters are expected to meet strict schedules, sometimes with little to no rest between shifts. The pressure to perform flawlessly, even when battling their own mental health struggles, is immense. When mistakes happen, instead of receiving support, they are often met with harsh criticism or financial penalties. This toxic cycle not only endangers the drivers but also the lives of those they transport.

THE PLIGHT OF BANKERS

Banking is a high-stress job and high levels of the stress hormone Cortisol released in the brain especially for prolonged periods can have damaging effects on our organs and health. Bankers, particularly those in customer-facing roles, are at risk. Working long hours, sometimes from Monday to Sunday, they have little time for rest, relaxation, or social activities. The constant pressure to meet targets, combined with complaints, disrespect, insults and little to no appreciation from the customers they serve and the institutions they work for can take a toll on their mental health.

Field workers, who are expected to generate business, are particularly vulnerable. They are often pushed to achieve results ‘anyhow’ without receiving much encouragement from their employers. The lack of mental health support in such high-stress environments can lead to burnout, negative stress, anxiety, and depression, making it difficult for these workers to perform at their best.

THE MENTAL STRAIN ON MEDICAL PRACTITIONERS

 Medical practitioners, especially surgeons, face tremendous pressure on a daily basis. Surgeons can perform multiple surgeries in a single day. Sometimes, despite the psychological weight of a failed surgery, self-doubt, guilt, or even the blame from the affected patients' families they are still expected to remain strong and immediately return to the operating theatre to perform another procedure. This intense mental burden, combined with the physical exhaustion of working long hours, leaves many medical professionals vulnerable to burnout, anxiety, and depression. Yet, in most cases, no one pauses to consider their mental state. They are expected to separate their feelings and continue to provide lifesaving care, often at the expense of their own well-being.

 THE OVERBURDENED OFFICE WORKERS

Office workers are not immune to the mental health challenges of the workplace. Many are tasked with multiple responsibilities, some of which fall outside their job description. Sometimes, new tasks are added, coupled with the pressure to perform them flawlessly. Add their own personal and family issues. This can be overwhelming for many staff. A piling workload, unhealthy criticism and competition, can create a hostile working environment that fosters stress and anxiety. This relentless pressure can lead to mental health breakdowns, leaving workers feeling trapped and unsupported.

THE STRUGGLE OF LAW ENFORCEMENT & MILITARY PERSONNEL

 The mental health of Military personnel and Law enforcement officers, especially in Nigeria, are often overlooked. These individuals, entrusted with protecting the lives and property of citizens/protecting the country’s territorial integrity, often endure extreme conditions rain or shine, standing for hours on end, often for little pay and even less appreciation. Their superiors, more focused on results, rarely inquire about their mental state. This negligence is dangerous. Imagine a police officer, given a rifle to handle volatile situations, without anyone assessing his emotional or mental stability. The officer, burdened by stress, frustration, or fear of demotion, may lash out at civilians or engage in unlawful arrests, aiming to extort money as a way to cope with the pressure. At checkpoints, officers are often expected to collect money, with the unspoken threat of transfers hanging over their heads if they fail to do so. This toxic cycle can push officers toward mental breakdowns, impacting their decision-making and ultimately endangering the very lives they are sworn to protect.

EMPLOYERS' MENTAL HEALTH

Employers are not exempt from the pressures of the workplace. The responsibility of meeting targets, managing teams, and ensuring the success of the company can lead to significant stress. Especially in a highly competitive sector. Overworking themselves and their employees is counterproductive, as it can result in burnout, poor decision-making, and a toxic work environment. Employers need to take care of their mental health to lead effectively. By prioritising their well-being, they can create a more comfortable and productive environment for everyone, ultimately benefiting the entire organisation.

THE IMPACT OF A TOXIC WORK ENVIRONMENT

A toxic working environment can have a profound impact on mental health. Whether it's due to poor management, lack of support, or an excessively high-pressure atmosphere, a toxic workplace can lead to a range of mental health issues, including stress, anxiety, and depression. Employees who feel unsupported or undervalued are more likely to experience burnout, leading to higher turnover rates and reduced productivity. Colleagues can also contribute to a difficult work environment through envy, creating tension and hostility that make it hard for others to perform their duties effectively.

Frequent sanctions, shouting at workers or using intimidation tactics can ignite fear, which is detrimental to a healthy work environment. Fearful employees may hesitate to speak up, even when they have vital information that could help the company grow. This withholding of information due to fear of how the boss might react can stifle innovation, create communication barriers, and prevent the organisation from reaching its full potential.

CREATING A BALANCED MENTAL HEALTH ENVIRONMENT IN THE WORKPLACE

In the hustle and bustle of today's work environment, maintaining a balance between productivity and mental well-being is crucial. Employers and employees both play pivotal roles in fostering a healthy workplace where everyone can thrive. By working together, they can create an atmosphere that supports mental health, leading to a more positive, productive, and harmonious workplace.

WAYS EMPLOYERS CAN HELP:

1. Openly and visibly reward and encourage hard working staff and don’t delay promotions.

2. Provide Mental Health assessment, training & counselling opportunities for staff

3. Have a Games / Recreation day for staff weekly and insist on breaks / annual leaves as merited

4. Have annual, bi-annual, quarterly camps/retreats for staff

5. Set Realistic Expectations and offer flexible work options

6. Be a good listener and show compassion

7. Delegate tasks suited to areas of expertise without overloading them

8. Encourage open communication to kill gossip

9. Encourage respect, self-improvement and growth in the workplace

10. Address issues Promptly without showing partiality

WAYS EMPLOYEES CAN HELP:

1. Prioritise Self-Care

2. Set healthy boundaries

3. Communicate Openly

4. Support Your Colleagues

5. Engage in Stress-Relief Activities

6. Seek Professional Help When Needed

7. Stay Organised

8. Participate in Workplace Wellness Programs

9. Maintain a Positive Attitude

10. Be Respectful and Collaborative

CONCLUSION

A mentally healthy workplace is built through the combined efforts of both employers and employees. When each plays their part - employers by fostering a supportive environment, and employees by prioritising their well-being - everyone benefits. Together, they can create a balanced, productive, and harmonious workplace where mental health is valued and nurtured.

#treasureyourmentalhealth

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